Thursday, June 22, 2017

A chronicle of events

1/9/14 - surgery, upper right colon pouch, urinary diversion - 9 days in the hospital at Duke, wife was apathetic 11/14 - caught my wife at the time, cheating on me 12/27/14 - I moved out 1/07 - present Ex continues to throw me under the bus, dad gets blamed for everything. 11/15 - surgery, twisted bowel, 17 days in the hospital. Ex-wife goes to my apartment to help me with getting some clean clothes. Ex-wife steals. $250 gift card and steals a ring that was mine 5/26/16 - separation agreement signed 6/16/16 - Father's Day- ex-wife hangs me up in jail, stranded after an aggressive pissed off junior cop (Long story) 8/5/16 - divorce is final 5/1/17 - I make the 12th mortgage payment, last of my obligation 6/21/17 - house has been listed since 3/15/17, priced $20k+ too high, after 3+ months no offers. Over priced The saga continues

Wednesday, June 21, 2017

PSA is rising, but not enough

I had my labs done monday, results today showed my PSA went up from 0.08 to 0.28. Still not enough to go back on meds...yippie!!! cancer is still in remission.

was that my mom speaking to me?

so my mom passed on 5/13, 5/14 was Mother's day. I talked to my mom every day, probably only missed 7 days over the last year. My mom's name was Dorothy. last week, on 6/14, one month after Mother's Day, I called American Express. when the customer service agent came on the phone, she said... "hello Mr. Evans, this is Dorothy" The immediate thought that came to my mind was "mom? is that you?" then I lost it, cried like a baby I believe in some way, it was mom talking to me

Mom passed on 5/13

sorry it's been a while since my last mom passed late on 5/13 in Carlsbad, CA while on vacation. It's been a very tough time since, but I have peace in that mom didn't suffer and went on her own terms. My grieving comes in waves and my guess is it will last the rest of my life. Mom was the best.

Sunday, May 7, 2017

Prayers for my mom

My parents were on vacation in San Diego with my older brother. My mom bumped her head while swimming in the pool. Two hours later she complained of a headache and laid down around 6pm pacific time on Thursday. Friday am my brother called 911 bc my mom was unresponsive. Friday they did a crainiotomy to drain the blood and fuse the leak. As of Sunday she still hasn't woke up but she's breathing on her own. Recovery could take weeks. Any and all prayers are needed, thank you

Thursday, March 30, 2017

Back pain

Looks like a pinched nerve so some therapy ahead. X-rays today, MRI soon. Need to get my back in shape before Club, golf is a must.

Friday, March 24, 2017

Scans results

All clean, great news! Still need to lose weight to help alleviate the back pain. One day at a time. Appreciate all the prayers and positive thoughts 😊